Princess Alexandra of Denmark
(1844-1925)
Born 1 December 1844 Copenhagen
Died 20 November 1925 Sandringham, Norfolk
Married 19 March 1863 Windsor Castle
Edward VII, King of Great Britain and Ireland 1901-1910
Born 9 November 1841 London
Died 6 May 1910 London
Growing up in the countryside in comparitive poverty, Alexandra
shared a bedroom
with her sister, Dagmar, and learned to make and mend
her own clothes.
They were to remain devoted all their lives. Changes
came when first
her father, a minor prince, was selected as heir for
the Danish throne.
Later, when her beauty became known, she was mentioned as a
possible bride
for the Prince of Wales (Edward VII). After a
pre-arranged
meeting in Germany, she happily consented to become
Princess of
Wales.
As this marriage had been especially the wish of her deceased
husband, Prince
Albert, Queen Victoria received her happily, as did
the English
nation. She was beautiful but superficial, self-centred
and deaf. Six
children were born between 1864 and 1871; and even
though she was
only about 27 years old, marital relations probably
ceased.
Lady Antrim explained Edward VII's infidelities: "The Prince might
have been a
more faithful husband if the Princess had been a more
loving wife".
The Prince, no intellectual, preferred the company of
clever and witty
women. Alexandra was simple and her deafness made
communications
difficult, so that she withdrew into her own world.
She dominated the affections of her children and was known as
"Mother Dear".
She resented the marriages of two daughters and
prevented her
other daughter Victoria from marrying, keeping her as
companion for
the rest of her life. Consequently Victoria became an
embittered old
maid. Alexandra doted on her sons and was a difficult
mother-in-law
to Princess Mary of Teck, who was first engaged to the
elder ("Eddy",
Duke of Clarence) but later married the younger son,
the future King
George V.
She resented most of her husband's lady-friends but she liked and
socialized with
Lillie Langtry, even to the point of visiting her at
home alone when
Lillie Langtry was ill. However, she disliked Alice
Keppel, though
she preferred her to the Countess of Warwick as Alice
Keppel was at
least discreet and kept the aging Edward VII in good
temper. When
Edward VII was dying, it was his written request for
Alice's attendance
which made Alexandra allow her to be present. When
Edward VII became
unconscious, Alexandra promptly ordered the
removal of "that
woman". And so the now hysterical Mrs. Alice Keppel
was led away
by Princess Victoria.
As a widow she owned a house in Denmark together with her widowed
sister Dagmar,
the Dowager-Empress of Russia, where they spent their
holidays together.
Towards the end of her life she became almost
totally deaf
and suffered from mild senile dementia.
Source: Leo van de Pas |