Audrey Hepburn (1929- 1993)
Born: 4 May 1929 Brussels, Belgium
Died: 20 January 1993 Tolochenaz, Switzerland
Married: (1) Mel Ferrer, 24 September 1954, Burgenstock, Switzerland
Married: (2) Andrea Mario Dotti, 18 January 1969, Morges, Switzerland
Edda Hepburn van Heemstra, born in Belguim on May 4, 1929, the daughter
of
Dutch Baroness Ella van Heemstra (born 1900) and John Hepburn Ruston (born
1889), a wealthy English banker. Audrey once said, that if she were to
ever write a
book about herself, it would start out like this, "I was born on May 4,
1929, and I
died three weeks later." True, for at 21 days old, Audrey contracted a
horrible case
of whooping cough, and her heart stopped. Ella, being the strict Christian
Scientist
that she was refused to call a doctor and revived her daughter by spanking
her.
Audrey's son Sean Ferrer later related that this "had an effect on her
whole life, as if
she'd been given a second chance."
Hepburn's parents had a turbulent marriage, and in 1938, when she was 9
years old,
they were formally divorced (with Ella maintaining primary custody of Audrey),
after
Hepburn Ruston had abandoned his wife and six year old daughter 3 years
earlier.
Much later on in life, Audrey related his leaving as "the most traumatic
event in my
life" and "a tragedy from which I don't think I've ever recovered. I worshipped
him
and missed him terribly from the day he disappeared..."
At the time, Audrey was attending a boarding school in England, and Ella
began to
spend more time there with her. She had first sent her there to hopefully
rid Audrey
of the constant bickering between herself and Audrey's father (who has
been rumored
to have been a heavy drinker at the time) and also in part to draw her
out of her shell,
as Audrey was a shy child, who was always far away in thought.
"I was terrified about being away from home" Audrey said. She was often
teased for
being shy, her less than perfect English, and the slight weight problem
she had at the
time, which has been related back to the depression s she so often experienced
when
her parents fought, and so she sought out food for comfort. This minor
problem would
change shortly ahead, though.
Despite the trauma of her parent's break up, Audrey made the honor role
at school
and also began making friends, and it is at this point, that Audrey first
fell in love.
With dancing, that is. A certain Miss Rigden was helping her 'discover'
the art form.
In a village in Kent, where Audrey stayed, "there was this young dancer
who would
come up from London and give ballet lessons, I loved it, just loved it."
In 1939, Audrey was disappointed to find that her mother was taking her
out of
school. One dance instructor even offered to take her to London with her
to further
her talent, but Ella said, "No. "She's coming back to Holland with me."
To give you a quick overview of the happenings at the time, England had
declared
war on Germany, following the Nazi invasion of Poland, in September of
1939. Travel
was scarce at the time, and Ella feared she might not see her daughter
for years, so
she returned to England panicked, and obtained court approval to remove
Audrey
back to Holland, where she thought it would be safe. Ella was under the
impression
that London would be bombed and that she and Audrey would be safer in Arnhem.
In
hindsight, this action is considered foolish, but at the time, Holland
was quite neutral,
and Ella's naive assumption that Hitler would most likely respect his "Dutch
Cousins", and so returning to Holland seemed to be the most sensible and
safest idea
at the time.
From this point on, Audrey's childhood was spent in Nazi-occupied Holland.
The
young Audrey endured the murder of relatives, survived by eating tulip
bulbs, and
carried secret messages for the resistance in her ballet shoes. Due to
severe
malnutrition, Audrey's metabolism changed, and this resulted in her "skinniness";
a
mere 110 pounds, which she managed to maintain for the rest of her life.
Audrey's adolescent years were spent in England with the Baroness after
they both
left Holland shortly after the end of the war. In 1948, Audrey was accepted
to the
famed Marie Lambert ballet school on scholarship, but was unable to attend
right
away due to the lack of funds. Later, Audrey's dreams were crushed when
she left the
Marie Lambert ballet school due to her limitations, (her lofty height and
inadequate
training). Audrey later spent most of her time working as a chorus girl
and
occasionally snagging photo shoots and bit part roles in movies.
By 1952, Audrey had appeared in several films as a minor character, including
"One
Wild Oat" (1951), "Laughter in Paradise" (1951) and "The Lavender Hill
Mob"
(1951) with Alec Guiness. In 1952, after completing "The Secret People",
in which
she had a rather large role, Audrey traveled to the French Riviera to shoot
"Monte
Carlo Baby". While filming in a hotel lobby, the famed French writer Collette
spots
Audrey. Collette's play "GigI" was currently in the middle of casting and
the main
character, Gigi, had yet to be cast. Collette, 78 at the time, was being
wheeled around
the lobby in her wheelchair when she accidently became entangled in technical
wires
and such that were being used during filming. While waiting to be untangled,
Collette
spots Audrey frolicking off to the side with two musicians while on a break.
She was
dancing around playfully with them. Collette's was mesmerized. "Voilá!
There is my
Gigi." And so are the beginnings of a legend.
Upon meeting with Collette, and hearing that she was intended for such
a role,
politely declined, "I'm sorry Madame, but it is impossible. I wouldn't
be able to,
because I can't act." Collette managed to change her mind, and Audrey read
for the
part. Although initially, her reading was disappointing, Collette insisted
on having
Audrey as Gigi, and so she was.
Shortly after, Audrey met with Hollywood director, William Wyler and read
for the
role of "Princess Anne" in his upcoming picture, "Roman Holiday". Later,
while
viewing her reading, Wyler determines that Hepburn is irresistible and
casts her as
his upcoming leading lady. Being signed on for her first Broadway play
and
Hollywood film, Audrey leaves for New York alone for the first time in
her life.
"Gigi" rehearsals began in October of 1951, and it became obvious that
Audrey was
going to have to do a lot of hard work. After vocal lessons and seriously
applying
herself to the role, Audrey's skills improved greatly. The play opened,
and while
critics did not favor it, no one could deny that Audrey was a shining star.
After much
praise and success, Audrey decides to resume her vocal and dance lessons
at the
Tarassova School of Ballet in New York City.
Audrey's long time beau, James Hanson, had traveled to New York for "Gigi's"
premiere, and while there, proposed marriage. Audrey accepted. However,
this
relationship would not lead to marriage. After several months of postponing
wedding
plans, Audrey broke it off with Hanson. She knew if she married him, she
would not
be able to continue with her career, and so the two parted ways.
After "Gigi's" closing date in early 1952, Audrey was immediately flown
to Rome to
begin "Roman Holiday" with Gregory Peck. Peck was so blown away with Audrey's
talent, that he called the studio and insisted on having Audrey's name
above the title,
because it would be incredibly foolish of them if they didn't.
"Roman Holiday" was completed in September of 1952 and opened with a smash.
Audrey was a hit and Hollywood was in love with her. Her regal air and
delicate,
pixie-like figure was a refreshing change from the buxom bottle blondes
the studios
had been used to. Audrey was on her way to becoming a superstar.
In September 1953, Audrey began shooting her second film; the Billy Wilder
directed
version of the British stage hit, "Sabrina Fair", renamed simply "Sabrina",
with
Humphrey Bogart and William Holden.
Before filming, Audrey was sent to Paris to pick up some French couture
clothing for
filming, as her character in the movie comes back from Paris the epitome
of Parisian
style. Audrey chooses a little shop that a young designer by the name of
Hubert de
Givenchy owned. Upon hearing that a "Miss Hepburn" was there to see him,
he
rushed up front to find Miss Hepburn, just not the one he had been expecting.
After
seeing that is was not Katherine Hepburn, but some skinny doe-eyed young
woman
he'd never heard of, he said he was too busy to make her anything, and
that she
should just browse the racks. However, after several minutes in her presence,
Givenchy was totally enchanted with Audrey and was soon taking her measurements
for the dresses he would make for her. The originally Givenchy's featured
in
"Sabrina" are still regarded as the definition of Audrey's simple chic
style and were a
great hit at the time. Hepburn and Givenchy would pair up again for several
of her
other films, and remained close friends for the rest of their lives.
During the filming of "Sabrina," Audrey began a romance with her cast mate,
Holden. They actually spoke of marriage, but those ideas were crushed when
Audrey
learned that Holden had had a vasectomy. More than anything, Audrey wanted
to
have children of her own, and that wasn't possible with Holden, so she
broke off their
relationship before the production of their film was complete.
While at a party in 1954, Audrey is introduced to a fellow actor, Mel Ferrer
by their
mutual friend, Gregory Peck. The two hit it off and a few months later,
Ferrer
introduced a script to Audrey called "Ondine", an upcoming Broadway play
about a
water sprite who falls in love with a handsome knight. Audrey accepted
the role and
"Ondine" started it's successful run on Broadway. During this time, Hepburn
and
Ferrer began a blossoming romance, one that lead to Ferrer proposing marriage
later
on.
During the production of "Ondine", Audrey was shocked to learn that she
had been
nominated for an Academy Award for her role in "Roman Holiday". The ceremony,
which was held on March 25, 1954, was being shot in both Los Angeles and
New
York. Audrey attended the latter, as she was in New York at the time with
"Ondine".
She arrived slightly late, as she had just finished performing the aforementioned
play
and showed up still in her stage make-up. After a tense time, the Best
Actress
category came up. Jean Hersholt read the nominees, and announced that Audrey
had
won the award. Audrey, obviously very moved, gave an emotional and grateful
speech and left the stage in somewhat of a daze.
Three days after the Oscar ceremony, Audrey received yet another shock.
She had
received the Tony for best on stage actress for her role in "Ondine." "How
will I
ever live up to them?" Audrey asked a group of reporters, when asked about
her
recent accolades. "It's like being given something when you're a child
- something
too big for you that you must grow into."
"Ondine" closed July 3, 1954 after 157 showings. Shortly after, Mel Ferrer
flew to
Switzerland and proposed to Audrey, who accepted over her mother Ella's
objection.
They were married in a civil ceremony on September 24, 1954 and repeated
their
vows at a religious ceremony in a Protestant chapel a day later, presided
over by
Pastor Maurce Eindigver.
In late 1954, after honeymooning in Italy, Audrey was thrilled to learn
that she was
pregnant! But sadly, she miscarries shortly before she was to co-star with
Mel in the
great epic film, "War and Peace." This was the first of several miscarriages
Audrey
suffered. Audrey became very depressed and smoked heavily after most of
the
ordeals. Being a mother was all that mattered to her, and yet it seemed
she could
never achieve such a blessing. The best way Mel knew to get Audrey out
of her
slumps was to get her working, and so they once again started filming "War
and
Peace."
Within the following years, Audrey shot many successful films. Mainly romantic
comedies about a young girl who finds romance with an older man, including
"Funny
Face", the 1957 musical with Fred Astaire and "Love in the Afternoon" that
same
year with Gary Cooper. After completing 5 films with charming romantic
story lines,
Audrey was ready for a challenge. She wanted to prove herself to all those
who
thought her only able to pull off syrupy love stories. In 1959, Audrey
began filming
"The Nun's Story", a serious drama based on the Kathryn C. Hulme's autobiography
of Marie-Louise Habets and her tale of her life as a nun and struggling
for her worth
after her father died at war and is faced with the decision to with the
sisterhood or go
off and fight the nazis. The role won Audrey great praise and her third
Academy
Award nomination.
Also in 1959, Audrey shot "Green Mansions", which co-starred Anthony Perkins
and
was directed by her husband, Mel Ferrer. However, the film was a disappointment
and Audrey moved on to her next project, John Huston's "The Unforgiven".
While
shooting, Audrey was thrown from a horse, causing her to break her back.
Thankfully, she was not paralyzed. The amazing thing about it was, that
she did not
complain about her situation at all. She merely stated that the pain "wasn't
too bad"
and refused medication. She was soon back on the set, but was deeply troubled
due to
the fact that she was pregnant when the accident occurred. Shortly after
"The
Unforgiven" was completed, she miscarried again.
Shortly after, Audrey becomes pregnant again and this time refuses all
roles. She
stays at home taking in some well-deserved rest and relaxation. The rest
pays off, for
on January 17, 1960, at thirty years old, Audrey gives birth to the first
of her greatest
achievements, Sean Hepburn Ferrer. Sean, meaning "Gift of God", was born
at
Lucerne's Municipal Maternity Clinic at nine and a half pounds. After seeing
her son
and crying for joy, Audrey abruptly passed out. The same Pastor baptized
Sean at the
same chapel who had married Audrey and Mel some years before.
After about a year of Audrey's maternity break, she resumed her Hollywood
life and
began filming "the role she was born to play." "Breakfast at Tiffany's",
a novella by
Truman Capote was about Holly Golightly, a young woman living in New York
who
was just trying to avoid the "mean reds," and everything else in life,
for that matter.
Golightly was a stylish playgirl who after evading love for the better
part of her life
falls for the writer upstairs who also happens to be a "kept man." Capote
hated the
idea of Hepburn as Golightly, and made it well known that he had originally
intended
the role for Marilyn Monroe. Audrey, not at all fazed by Capote, filmed
with
impeccable charm and style, thanks in part to yet another pairing with
Givenchy.
Audrey received her fourth Oscar nod and "Breakfast at Tiffany's" is forever
encased as the standard stylish film of the 20th century.
Shortly after, Audrey filmed "The Children's Hour" with Shirley Maclaine,
a tale of
cruel student who accuses the two headmistresses at her school of lesbianism.
Due to
it's content; the film was deemed somewhat scandalous. Audrey the moved
on to the
stylish Stanley Donen directed film, "Charade" about a widow who is sought
after by
a group of thugs who claim that her recently deceased husband stole a large
sum of
money from them and wants it back. She has no idea what they mean, and
is soon so
caught up in a web of lies and mystery that she doesn't know who to trust,
particularly
her would be love interest, the ever so charming Cary Grant. "Paris When
It
Sizzles," co-starring her former love, William Holden, followed. The film
however was
not entirely favored by critics.
In 1963, Audrey is cast as the lead in the musical "My Fair Lady," the
sweet tale of
Eliza Doolittle, a cockney flower girl who wants to learn to be a "real
lady." Rex
Harrison costars as Professor Higgins, the man who will finesse her into
high society.
During filming, Audrey was appalled to find out that after being told she
would indeed
be able to sing some tracks, her singing voice will be dubbed entirely
by Marni
Nixon. As a deliberate snub for this, Audrey was not nominated for the
Academy
Award for Best Actress. It was won that year by Julie Andrews (for "Mary
Poppins")
who had originated the role of Eliza Doolittle on Broadway, but had been
cast over for
the costly film due to her unknown Hollywood stature.
Sometime in 1964, Audrey begins to hear rumors of her father death. Mel
decides to
investigate, only to find her father living in Dublin. Audrey visits him
there to
discover that at 74, he has remarried. It was a bittersweet reunion, and
from then
until his death 20 years later, Audrey would send him money on a monthly
basis.
In 1966, Audrey filmed the clever art caper "How to Steal a Million" with
Peter
O'Toole which was then followed by "Two for the Road," the account of one
couple's
romance over the years. It's high points, it's low points, their rises
and their falls.
"Two for the Road" seemed to hit home for Audrey, for she could relate
greatly to
the stressed relationship she portrayed on film. Throughout the years of
her film
success, the greater Audrey became, the more she and Mel fell apart from
one
another. It is said that Mel was jealous of his wife's fame and that he
turned to other
female companions for comfort.
In a last ditch effort to save her marriage, Audrey agreed to shoot "Wait
Until Dark"
with Mel at the director's helm. The psychological thriller tells of a
blind woman who
is harassed by three devious men for a doll that unbeknownst to our heroin,
is filled
with heroin. The film was a great success earning Audrey her fifth and
final Academy
Award nomination, but it did no good for the Ferrer marriage. On December
5, 1968,
Audrey and Mel are divorced with Audrey retaining custody of Sean and "La
Paisible," (The Peaceful Place) their home in Tolochenaz, Switzerland.
Audrey
doesn't want to work anymore, and she refuses all scripts.
Earlier that year, Audrey had met Dr. Andrea Dotti, an Italian psychiatrist,
aboard
Princess Olympia Torlonia's yacht. Sparks flew and on January 18, 1969,
Audrey
marries Dr. Dotti, six weeks after her divorce from Ferrer. Four months
after her
marriage, she soon finds herself pregnant again. Staying with her previous
method,
Audrey avoids all activity and stays home to rest. Her peace is not long
lived after
she finds her private life in the papers after rumors fly about Andrea's
constant
female companions. Audrey looked past this, though, and onto the upcoming
arrival
of her second child.
On February 8, 1970, Audrey and Andrea's son Luca is born at the Cantonal
Hospital
in Lausanne by caesarean section. After living in Rome with Dotti for about
a year,
she tried convinced him to move his practice to Switzerland so that her
son's could be
raised in a safe and loving environment, La Paisible. Dotti was somewhat
annoyed at
the suggestion and refused. Audrey however did take the children to Tolochenaz
while Andrea stayed in Rome, leaving him plenty of time to party at the
local discos.
In 1976, after years away from the silver screen, Audrey decides to jump
back into
her acting, starring alongside Sean Connery in "Robin and Marian," the
tales of the
older Robin and Marian, what they were after the "ever after" ending. She
continued
three years later with "Bloodline", based on a Sidney Sheldon book, Audrey
starred
as a paleontologist with her co-star, Ben Gazarra.
Audrey had raised her children with Dotti for 10 years the best she could,
but became
fed up with his extra marital excursions and filed for divorce in 1980.
The two were
formally divorced in 1982.
After the divorce, Audrey felt once again as though she had failed. She
soon began to
shoot the film "They All Laughed." Towards the end of filming, she met
actor Robert
Wolders Both had a lot in common, such as the fact that they were both
recently
single, (Robert's wife had just passed on shortly before their meeting)
and their
shared Dutch heritage. They became great friends and companions until Audrey's
death.
On August 26, 1984, Audrey's mother Ella passes away after having lived
with
Audrey at La Paisible in Tolochenaz for 10 years, leaving Audrey deeply
saddened.
Robert had moved in with Audrey at La Paisible and was a great comfort
to her
during her divorce and the loss of her mother. The presence of Robert in
Audrey's
life was a refreshing one. "I love Robbie very, very much" she said. "It's
not Romeo
and Juliet; we've had our tiffs, but very few. It's a wonderful friendship;
we like each
other... He is solid in every way. I can trust him. I trust his love; I
never fear I'm
losing it."
It was in 1987 that Audrey began her most important role; Goodwill Ambassador
for
UNICEF (United Nations Children's Fund). UNICEF is an organization that
assists
children in crises by providing nutritional supplements, medical care and
educators.
Audrey, having been a victim of war felt deeply in debt for such an organization,
for it
was the UNRRA (United Nations Relief and Rehabilitation Administration)
who
came in with food and supplies after the ending of WWII and virtually saved
a
malnourished Audrey's life.
Accompanied by Robert, Audrey begins the first of her many field trips
of behalf of
UNICEF starting with Macao and then followed by Japan and Ireland. She
spends
most of 1988 on field assignments, doing her best to provide care and create
awareness to the situations that the world's children live in. Several
memorable trips
would include Ethiopia, Turkey and South America.
1989 was a busy year that Audrey began in Central America. In April, Audrey
represents UNICEF before the House Select Subcommittee in Washington D.C.
by
testifying on Hunger. She was then off to Sudan, Bangkok and Bangladesh,
overseeing work there.
It was towards the end of that year that Audrey would appear in her last
film,
"Always." Directed by Stephen Spielberg and co-starring Richard Dreyfuss,
Audrey
made a cameo as an angel named Hap. Later in 1990, Audrey shot a television
series
called "Gardens of the World" that featured beautiful gardens in select
spots all over
the world, beginning in her home, Holland.
In October, Audrey makes more UNICEF trips, including Vietnam, and later
on to
Norway to help co-host the "Concert for Peace," with Jimmy Carter and Nelson
Mandela. In June of 1991, Audrey makes another trip to congress to promote
the
need for aid in Africa. In September of 1992, Audrey travels to Somalia,
where the
people were starving and the country was a general nightmare.
After Somalia, Audrey and Robert decide to travel to California to see
Sean. While
there, Audrey developed severe stomach pains. Fearing that she had contracted
some sort of disease while over seas, she was rushed to the hospital. It
was not a
virus that had caused Audrey's pain. Audrey was diagnosed with colon cancer,
and
later operated on. The doctor gave her three months to live, but she hung
on for a
mere seventy-nine days.
After the surgery, Audrey returns to her beloved La Paisible to recover.
She tried to
take small walks around her beautiful gardens, but was rarely strong enough.
While recovering, Audrey receives the news of several accolades that have
been
bestowed upon her. The first was the SAG Achievement Award, which was accepted
on her behalf by Julia Roberts. Later, she received the Presidential Medal
of
Freedom for 1992 for her work on behalf on UNICEF. In early 1993, Audrey
was told
she was to be awarded the Jean Hersholt Humanitarian Award at the April
ceremony.
Sean Ferrer would later accept this honor on behalf of his mother.
On January 10, 1993, Audrey takes her last walk around her gardens at La
Paisible,
supported by Robert, stopping at each plant and telling him what sort of
attention it
would need come spring. Ten days later, on January 20, 1993, Audrey Hepburn
passes away (At seven P.M.) at her home peacefully in her sleep.
Four days later, her funeral takes place at which one of her dearest friends,
Hubert
de Givenchy, and ex-husband Mel Ferrer are pallbearers. UNICEF's Prince
Sadruddin Aga Khan delivered a eulogy and Maurice Eindiguer, the very same
pastor who had married Audrey and Mel Ferrer some 30 years earlier presided
over
her funeral.
On January 20, 1993, Tiffany's stores around the world place her picture
and a sign in
their windows...
Audrey Hepburn
1929 - 1993
Our Huckleberry Friend
In losing Audrey, the world not only lost a movie star, we lost a princess;
an angel; a
person who inspired us all and whose selfless and loving example shall
always be
remembered.
Source:
© Jenna Actaboski - 2001
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