Princess Mary Adelaide of Cambridge,
Princess of Great Britain and
Ireland, (1833-1897)
Born 27 November 1833 Hannover
Died 27 October 1897 White Lodge, Richmond
Franz, Duke of Teck
Born 27 August 1837 Wien, Austria
Died 21 January 1900 White Lodge, Richmond
Married 12 June 1866 Kew
The undignified scramble for brides, following the untimely death
of Princess
Charlotte of Wales, resulted in marriages for the Dukes of
Clarence (William
IV), Kent and Cambridge. In each case the groom was
considerably
older than the bride, providing England at a later stage
with three dowagers,
one of whom, the Duchess of Cambridge (Auguste of
Hessen-Kassel),
survived her husband by thirty-nine years.
In quick succession, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge became the
parents of a
son, George, a daughter, Auguste, and, after a lapse of
eleven years,
another daughter, Mary Adelaide. In his diary her
brother recorded:
"10 January 1834. Yesterday evening the christening
of Mary took
place. A most solemn and beautiful ceremony and the
service was
well performed by Mr. W(ood). The little baby did not cry
at all. I signed
my name as witness".
This brother George, later 2nd Duke of Cambridge, and once
considered as
a possible spouse for Queen Victoria, married Louisa
Fairbrother,
a marriage frowned upon and not recognised by the Royal
Family. There
is a story that while Princess Mary, George's youngest
sister, was
driving in Hyde Park, her lady-in- waiting suddenly
exclaimed: "Why!
There's Mrs. FitzGeorge." "Where?" asked the Princess
excitedly. "Which
is she? I have never yet seen her."
When in 1850 their father was dying, Auguste, Grand Duchess of
Mecklenburg-Strelitz,
travelled night and day to reach him before he
died; she arrived
seven hours after all was over. During the Duke's
last days, Princess
Mary spent many hours at Cambridge House. "I feel
so grateful
to God," she wrote,"that I was permitted to be with him,
for he liked
to have me with him, when Mama was for a moment called
away, to fan
him and to bathe his temples with eau-de-Cologne; and
then he would
press my hand and whisper, "Charming," and "Dear". The
same evening
all was over, and the spirit had returned to God who gave
it. His will
be done."
In 1857 their aunt, the Duchess of Gloucester, died. "We young
people," wrote
Princess Mary, "that is to say, George, Augusta and I,
loved her as
a second mother. She was an angelic being and I trust
that one day
I may follow her bright example, and resemble her in mind
and heart as
well as in name."
When in 1858 Vicky, Queen Victoria's eldest daughter, pregnant for
the first time,
discussed the arrangements for the birth with her
Court Chamberlain,
Queen Victoria was shocked; she was shocked again
when Princess
Mary of Cambridge asked Prince Albert whether Vicky
suffered much
from morning sickness, as these conditions were not to
be discussed
with "any gentleman". "Poor Mary", as Queen Victoria
called her because
of her vast proportions, became engaged at last,
aged thirty-three,
to the four-years-younger Prince of Teck. Franz,
handsome, vivacious
and dark, was the morganatic son of Duke Alexander
of Wurttemberg
and the Hungarian Countess Claudine Rhedey, and Queen
Victoria considered
"Poor Mary" had chosen well. Mary's brother and
mother were
both delighted, for there had been anxious times when it
seemed possible
that no suitable offer would ever be made.
Princess Mary was generous, impulsive, and entertaining, but she
was "a mountain
of a girl", and her massive proportions scarcely
hinted at the
attraction of her character. Everything about her was
vast and generous:
the way she looked, the way she ran into debt, the
way she forgave
and forgot animosities.
"Fat Mary", large, jolly and generous, often found herself in
pecuniary difficulties
and at one time, in order to economise,
moved with her
family to Florence and it was here that her daughter
Mary, the future
Queen Mary, acquired an interest in art which was
to remain with
her all her life. Two years later they returned to
London, arriving
on daughter Mary's eighteenth birthday.
Princess Mary was much beloved and she was loudly cheered in
the jubilee
Procession of 1887. She said to a friend afterwards:
"Yes, dear,
as one of the old Royal Family the kind public always
gives me a warm
welcome."
When her mother died (6 April 1889) aged ninety-two, the end
had come so
suddenly that none of her children was with her.
Queen Victoria,
seated between Princess Mary and Princess Augusta,
attended and,
except that of her son Leopold, it was the only
funeral she
ever attended.
The Duchess of Teck's visit to the 1897 Jubilee Review was
one of her last
public appearances. Earlier in the year she had
been taken seriously
ill in the night and had been saved only by
immediate surgery;
however, her recovery was only temporary and,
at three a.m.
on October 27 after a second emergency operation, her
heart failed.
She left no will.
Source: Leo van de Pas |